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Happy Twelve Step-versary

joyceskaye.com Posted on March 10, 2022 by JoyceMarch 10, 2022

Happy Twelve Step-aversary

Thirty-two years ago marked the most important day of my life: I attended my first Twelve Step meeting. Happy Twelve Step-versary to me! I had no clue how my life would be transformed, the extent to which it would be. Nor had I a clue as to all the wonderful people I would encounter on that path.

I was a devout atheist, who for the prior five years had heard about the Twelve Step program, and had had no intention to willingly go and interact with a group of people who were going to use the ‘G’ word, i.e., God, when they spoke. That is the attitude I held despite my life-long struggle with overeating and binging; my hopelessness and despair; my aloneness because people didn’t understand me; and, a hole within me that food did not fill.

After doing some inner work on myself and severing myself from some unhealthy relationships, I found myself willing to dip my toe in the water when a second person, whose experience and advice I trusted, suggested the Program as a means to help with my eating disorder. That Saturday, March 10, 1990, I went to my first Twelve Step meeting in the morning, and I was Home. It was amazing! What I heard and the people I met so fed my soul that I went to two more meetings that day!

Today I celebrate my thirty-second anniversary of stepping into the rooms of recovery—physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. I celebrate being given a guidebook on how to live life, interact with others, and have a relationship with a Power greater than myself that restored and maintains my sanity, that allows me to live happy, joyous, and free. I celebrate being part of a worldwide fellowship that is loving, understanding, caring, supportive, and fun! I celebrate being of service in helping others, giving of myself while simultaneously discovering my gifts and talents along the way. I celebrate all of the promises coming true.

Thank You, Spirit, for the birth of Alcoholics Anonymous, all the fellowships that sprung from it, and all the recovery and healing they have brought to countless souls. I am one of those blessed souls.

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Sending Love

joyceskaye.com Posted on March 9, 2022 by JoyceMarch 9, 2022

sending love

Once again some morning readings had my mind wandering to the violence and upheaval going on in the world today.

“Let us so live that we may retire at night in peace, knowing that no harm can come to the soul; that we may rise in the morning renewed in body and in mind, with a brighter outlook, a happier expectation and a clearer joy, looking upon all with love, condemning none and blessing even those who seek to injure us.”

– “The Science of Mind,” by Ernest Holmes, page 435

While I appreciate knowing that my soul cannot be harmed, the human body can be. Hence, I’m not sure how much solace such a thought would bring the people in Ukraine these days. And, I’m not sure those fleeing and those fighting are getting rest of any sort and thus not feeling renewed in body and in mind. Hopefully the moral support they are receiving is helping them to keep a bright outlook and expect a happier future. And, despite what is going on, it’s possible they are blessing Putin and their invaders, knowing that in the end we are all one in Spirit. Keeping the higher ground is uplifting to one’s self and others, and can bring some inner peace when the external world is spinning.

On a more uplifting note…

“It’s great to be able to help people when they need it. But sometimes that’s not possible…I may not have the resources to offer right now. There is one resource I can always offer, however, and that’s my love. I can send someone a loving thought. I can imagine them happy and whole. I can see light all around them, enlivening and blessing their lives.”

– “Everyday Joy, 365 days of ohmygod life,” by Z Egloff and Melissa Phillippe, March 9

I am fortunate and most grateful that I have been able to send some financial resources overseas to help the Ukrainian nation. But much more regularly—like every morning at the very least, I am sending love, light, and healing first to Ukraine, then all of Europe, and then the rest of the world.

No one is exempt from the repercussions related to the invasion by Putin and the responses it has prompted. Thoughts and feelings are powerful and creative; I trust that by sending love, folks feel it at some level, and their soul feels a little lighter and brighter.

We are each Source, sending love out to the entire world!

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Helping God Out

joyceskaye.com Posted on March 8, 2022 by JoyceMarch 8, 2022

I’ve taken note that I often receive guidance, creative ideas in the middle of the night when I’m not quite sleeping, yet not really awake. This also can occur once I’ve finished my morning chant and head into some silent meditation time. I try to remember what’s been imparted, but am not always successful, although I do ask Spirit to help me to remember. And, sometimes the stuff actually makes sense in the 3-D world!

This morning I received an idea about asking for help from people. That in and of itself was interesting since I don’t ask for help very often. The idea was that whenever I ask someone for help, I’m actually asking the Divine for help. And, ya know, that’s an idea that makes sense to me!

The Divine does not have a corporeal body so expresses Itself through people who obviously do have a physical body. We are each the hands of God, the feet, the eyes, etc.

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That thought brought to mind a poem attributed to St. Teresa of Ávila. In reading it, you might want to substitute “Christ” with Spirit, God, Oneness, etc.

Christ has no body but yours,
No hands, no feet on earth but yours,
Yours are the eyes with which He looks
Compassion on this world,
Yours are the feet with which He walks to do good,
Yours are the hands, with which He blesses all the world.
Yours are the hands, yours are the feet,
Yours are the eyes, you are His body.
Christ has no body now but yours,
No hands, no feet on earth but yours,
Yours are the eyes with which He looks
compassion on this world.
Christ has no body now on earth but yours.

Not only can we help physically using our hands and feet, but with our heart as well, being compassionate with others.

This idea that came to me in the middle of the night certainly puts another slant on asking for help and for providing help; it adds another layer of meaning for me. When I ask for a person’s help, they are the conduit in which Spirit provides aid to me. And when I give help, Spirit is expressing through me to others. So not only am I being of service, but I am strengthening my bond with Spirit.

We are each helping God out.

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Law of Giving and Receiving

joyceskaye.com Posted on March 7, 2022 by JoyceMarch 7, 2022

I got a kick out of Z Egloff and Melissa Phillippe’s words in today’s “Everyday Joy, 365 days of ohmygod life.”

They were discussing the Law of Circulation and how giving a hug immediately gets returned as receiving a hug, immediate payback!

What we most want to get is precisely that which we need to give.

Deepak Chopra talks about the Law of Giving and Receiving:

“The universe operates through dynamic exchange . . . giving and receiving are different aspects of the flow of energy in the universe. And in our willingness to give that which we seek, we keep the abundance of the universe circulating in our lives.”

I need to remember that when I am giving, I am receiving, and energy is moving. It is then when life feels especially rich and I feel so alive. And, I know, Spirit is in the midst of all.

giving and receiving

 

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Make a Contribution

joyceskaye.com Posted on March 6, 2022 by JoyceMarch 6, 2022

A few weeks ago, I volunteered to use my many years of experience and expertise in creating and publishing electronic newsletters to train the person newly responsible for the e-newsletters at my spiritual center. Since I work full-time, we made arrangements to have the first session today following the Sunday service.

Having these plans, I found one of today’s morning readings timely:

Make a ContributionI long to accomplish a great and noble task, but it is my chief duty to accomplish small tasks as if they were great and noble. – Hellen Keller

“This is what gives our life real importance: to know that with God’s guidance, we can make a contribution that is necessary and unique.”

– “In God’s Care*: Daily Meditations on Spirituality in Recovery,” March 6
*As We Understand God

Well, Spirit had other plans. While this person was present at the Sunday service, she left before it had concluded, without a word to anyone. We don’t know if perhaps she wasn’t feeling well, or something else came up; no one had her personal phone number in order to contact her. I trust she is well and am sending light and love to her; I’ll check in tomorrow at the office if she doesn’t connect with me first.

So while I was waiting to see if this person might have briefly left and would return, I got called in to be of service elsewhere: a Board member needed a second person to assist with counting the offering. This is one area in which the Board has been struggling to find volunteers each week.

I gladly obliged, especially grateful to help out since my other volunteer plans had gone up in smoke. I really wanted to be of service, and Spirit needed my contribution elsewhere. It felt great to be productive and to give of myself, even if the details were different than I was anticipating.

Being of service makes me feel closer to God. I get the opportunity to interact and better know other people and help to ensure the organization continues to thrive. Such a deal!

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Love and Oneness

joyceskaye.com Posted on March 5, 2022 by JoyceMarch 5, 2022

Oneness

In the second week of Putin’s invasion of the Ukraine, a couple of of today’s morning readings were once again about us being one and loving the different infinite expressions of Spirit manifested in individual people.

The following quote is from the March 5, 2022 Daily Guide in “Science of Mind Magazine.” The author, Rev. Steph St. Amand, began with writing about the question we are asked as youngsters: “What do you want to be when you grow up?” Actor? Journalist? Zoologist? Rock star? The pressure of striving and achieving can be great and veer us off the path we were truly meant to follow.

Here’s what she’d say now:

“…when I grow up, I want to be happy. Living an authentic life…

“The lofty, sacred purpose before each of us is to be present for the moment before us and shine a light on the illusion that we are separate from one another or separate from Sprit.

Affirmation:
“I listen to the God-voice inside me, cheering me on to my highest expression. I fulfill my noble purpose through loving acts and joyful thinking.”

Ernest Holmes wrote about human relations in the March 5 entry in “365 Science of Mind: A Year of Daily Wisdom from Ernest Holmes.” How we think of ourselves and perceive others impacts how we treat one another, often separating ourselves even though we are all beings created from the same Source, part of the Oneness yet unique.

I found his words this day particularly powerful. Here’s an excerpt:

“What a difference it would make in our human relations if we tried to sense the meaning of this Divine incarnation in all people and adjust our viewpoint to the truth that we are all bound together in the unity of God.

“We are so used to thinking of ourselves as separate from one another that we suspect the very feeling and emotion that causes us to embrace everything in love. The one who loves the most will live the most. We meet each other only in fragments, only partially, only in a miserly way when we refuse to open the whole avenue of our consciousness to the realization that there is but one living Spirit….a Divine Presence manifesting Itself in infinite variations—the same impulse, the same Love and Life, but never quite alike in any two persons.

“I will endeavor to see the Divine Presence in everything. I am demanding of myself that I see and sense and feel the One Life that flows through all…”

May each of us further open our heart and mind to live life with love, treating others as if part of the same God, never wanting to harm that which we love—because we are part of the same God!

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Nearer, My God

joyceskaye.com Posted on March 4, 2022 by JoyceMarch 4, 2022

Nearer-My-God-to-Thee

“The life force that made me is right here. It is closer to me than anything else because it is me. I couldn’t get any closer to the Infinite than I already am. Becoming more aware of this, however, is something I can do.”

– “Everyday Joy, 365 days of ohmygod life,” by Z Egloff and Melissa Phillippe, March 4

Yes, Spirit is within me, as close as my breath. But how easily I can forget It, but I do! My daily spiritual practices help me to stay close to Spirit—well, of course, we’re close, we’re One! Close in my awareness, that is.

My morning practice includes: chanting leading into silent meditation; Naam yoga; prayer at my breakfast meal and sending, love, light, and healing out to individuals and the world at large; contemplating several readings from various authors (like the quote above); and, journaling, closing with “Gratefully, Joyce.”

During the course of the day, I strive to be kind, patient; compassionate; and, helpful to my work colleagues and anyone else I cross paths with, as those qualities are, of course, of God. Living/being those attributes strengthens my awareness of Spirit. Knowing I’ll be writing my spiritual blog, I keep an eye out for synchronicities and other “sightings” of God at play that may serve as the topic of the day’s blog post.

In closing my day, I write in my gratitude journal at least ten people, situations, feelings, whatever, for which I am grateful. I often get a little bit of spiritual reading in, and then perhaps fall asleep to Native American flute music or the like.

It may sound like a lot, but I know that without the aforementioned as a bare minimum spiritual practice, I can get totally lost in the matters of the world, feel like I am on my own, and land up getting closer to my ego (“easing God out”) rather than God. But with my practices, I feel more connected to people and the awareness that we are all One, that we each are an expression of the Divine.

Music is dear to me, and inspirational New Thought songs and prayerful melodies touch my heart, where Spirit resides. In reading the aforementioned quote, the song “Nearer, My God, to Thee” came to mind. I’m not really familiar with most of the lyrics, except the chorus that repeats “Nearer, my God, to Thee.” I found a recording of it that is simply heavenly,  sung by the BYU Vocal Point Chorus.

Such music goes straight to my heart, increasing my awareness of, and connection to, the Infinite, which I can never really have enough of. I am grateful.

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I Am Filled with Peace

joyceskaye.com Posted on March 3, 2022 by JoyceMarch 3, 2022

I identify with abundance, health. and happiness.

I associate myself with the vast All.

I identify myself with everything necessary to make my life complete.

There is no depression, no fear, no sense of lack, insecurity, or unworthiness.

I believe that God is All-in-All, over all, in everything that I shall ever meet.

I am filled with peace and confidence.

– “This Thing Called You,” by Ernest Holmes, page 50

nature-waters-dawn

Despite the outer circumstances and affairs going on in Eastern Europe which impact the entire world, I am filled with peace and confidence that all is well at some level. I continue sending the light out to the far reaches of the planet and the deeper inner reaches of each soul.

Namasté. Now more than ever may the divinity, the wholeness in me and you respect and honor the divinity and wholeness in all.

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The Spiritual Principle of Love

joyceskaye.com Posted on March 2, 2022 by JoyceMarch 2, 2022

I’ve really been immersed in Science of Mind philosophy on a daily basis, especially so with participating in a five-week course in its spiritual principles, which ended this evening. I will miss it.

In brief, the spiritual principles of Science of Mind are:

1. Oneness
2. Love
3. Creation
4. Threefold Nature
5. Creative Process
6. Spiritual Laws
7. Spiritual Beings
8. Freedom
9. Heaven
10. Eternal Life

Throughout the course I chose to focus on the spiritual principle of Love, “…the self-givingness of Universal Spirit through Its desire to express itself in terms of creation. Love is the impulse and Law is the way of creation.” (from “Spiritual Principles and Practices,” by Centers for Spiritual Living™, Student Workbook, page 39).

My final project centered on my goal and affirmation “I am in a sacred, loving life partnership” and I created a vision board of what it looks like being in that partnership, feeling it in the present moment. It was fun creating the board, but more importantly it brought forth the energy to create what is my heart’s desire.

“We have within us, a power that is greater than anything we shall ever contact in the outer, a power that can overcome every obstacle in our life and set us safe, satisfied and at peace, healed and prosperous, in a new light, and in a new life.” – Ernest Holmes

And so it is.

I Am in a Sacred Loving Life Partnership

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Came to Believe

joyceskaye.com Posted on March 1, 2022 by JoyceMarch 6, 2022

Came to Believe“Came to believe”: The three most beautiful words in our language. – Anonymous

“Came to believe” had become a magical phrase for many of us. It is indeed beautiful. What did we come to believe? That a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. And it has happened in so many lives that it is a tenet of our program. The lost have come home; we’ve been restored.”

– “In God’s Care*: Daily Meditations on Spirituality in Recovery,” March 1
*As We Understand God

I too “came to believe” thanks to the 12 Step philosophy. And it was more than just coming to believe that a power greater than myself could restore me to sanity regarding my eating disorder, although that was huge for sure. In addition to being restored to my right mind, I came to believe in Spirit, no small feat for a long-time, analytical, logical, devout atheist.

I came to believe that I wasn’t alone in the world, in life, that I had this loving Divine Presence in my life, along with people who could actually understand me and truly care about me. I came to believe that it was okay to ask for help, that being of service was crucial for my recovery and my soul, that life could be filled with meaning and purpose. I came to believe that I could be happy, joyous, and free and not have to pick up my drug of choice. I came to believe in a different perspective about people, the world, and life.

Coming to believe in a power greater than myself could restore me to sanity was just the beginning, 30+ years ago. I am beyond grateful!

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